How to ask someone if they've been tested?

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I'm thinking about having oral sex with a friend. We've talked and neither of us is interested in a relationship, just a friends with benefits kinda thing. I've only been with one other guy and we were both virgins. My friend isn't. I know he doesn't sleep around but this seems way too serious to chance. So how do I ask him? And how do I know he will be honest? And what if he doesn't know if he has something? What's the best way to do this without being insulting? Thanks,
Yes, I know what oral sex is. Thank you for your unhelpful answer.
 
well your health is more important you can flat ask him, but 99% of the time he wont tell you the truth specially in a heated moment, so the best thing to do is not to suck unless you know for sure that hes 100% safe. I dont trust anyone, and I find myself lucky to be clean, because 6 in 10 guys or girls have some kind of STD and you wouldnt want that in your mouth, would you?
 
Just ask, if you are friends with benefits, honesty is the best weapon....and if he hasn't been tested go together, DO NOT TAKE A CHANCE!!!!
 
Just ask. It's your health. In this day and age you can't be afraid of insulting someone when you ask them because you can't undo sex once it's done. You are thinking of having sex with this person. That's as personal as it gets. If he gets all bent out of shape over you asking him a personal question, then maybe sex with him isn't a good idea.

Even if he says he's been tested and he says he's clean, you still need to protect yourself.
 
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