How should i "drop"...?

[swimmerchick55]

These girls are always mean to me for no apparent reason. We all have the same classes all day long, and i ride home with one of them most days. I don't really like any of the other kids in the classes because they are all friends with them, just as bad, raciest, or they don't like any one who does not like to talk about sex 24-7. I have lots of friends in swimming, church, other classes, and all of my after school activities. How do I drop them with out having to say anything mean to make them want to get back at me or start rumors. They were great friends until about this year. How do I handle this? I feel like when I am around them I am constantly being put down, this doesn't happen anywhere else. I have thought about either when they say "You just don't get it" replying, "If you were smart then you would stop saying it to me then, wouldn't you?" but I'm scared they would make my school-life worse. I've been trying to ignore them. One of them isn't bad at all with out the other. She can actually be a good friend. Should I drop one and stay friends with the other, just leave it for the last 4 months of being around them, or drop both?

 

[MaryanneA]

I would get rid of all of them...especially if I don't feel comfortable around them.

 

[kylie1606]

if they treat you this bad then they are not good friends and you shouldn't put up with it. you don't have to be mean to them but you can distance yourself from them and hang out with your other friends that you mentioned, just start to hang out with a new group of people. your mean friends will either freak out or barely notice. if they freak out just ignore it because all they are looking for is a reaction, if you don't react its not fun to them and they will stop. so just try to find friends who like you for you and who respect you and treat you well and then just start to hang out with them and distance yourself from your mean friends. just try and act mature about the whold situation and it will go a lot better. you don't have to mean back to them, just drop them and hang with people you like.good luck with everything, i hope this helps.

 

[MillerS]

Make little faces when you see them without you and then just hang out with someone else all the time, and make sure to never talk to them over the phone. It would be easier on you. Believe me, hurt them verbally and mentally and they will understand. Make rude comments, disgust them and make them think you are absolutley revolting.Just a thoughtHope I could help!