how should i approach this situation with this girl?

Derrick Rose

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Alright so I met this stripper on halloween and I got a lapdance from her last week and we talked it was nice I fell for her though like lust mode haha. I just wanted to see her again and wished I could of just asked her out or something, but anyways i found out she was performing this week so I went today and I came out clean during the lap dance. I said "honestly, I am not trying to be technical or anything but I am just trying to save myself from falling for you or anything like that so I just wanted to know straight up if everything you do and say to me is just for the money. she said, you know sometimes there is times but other times it isn't for the money but give me and example. So I said, last time you gave me a lap dance I won't lie you had me sprung and I just had to see you again and well I am just wondering like is this just a regular-business type of relationship, or can me and you actually go somewhere. She then said, I have dated two guys while I worked but it didn't work out she said most were assholes and wanted to get her out of the business which she didn't want to do then she said she doesn't know me too well which is true i have only seen her 3 times. So she went on to say if we got to know each other better there is a possibility that something could happen. After a few more songs I reinforced saying so if we get to know each other we could go somewhere with this and she said maybe and that she didn't want to say for sure 100% but like you know I can live with what she does I am not going to be jealous or try to get her out she is just trying to make it and i respect her. Also when I went to ask for her number I said would it be to soon and she said maybe a bit too soon." Also I am not sure because who knows she could be lying but at times there is just a feeling that says she is faithful but it seems like she is for real. So there you have it now I am just wondering like is it worth giving it a try she will be back next week so should i attempt to get to know her and see if something can happen or is it all just not going to work out and I should forget about it? Please help me out I really like this girl thanks


ps. im going to the club tomorrow and she is most likely working so how should I act about when I see her?
 
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