How should I approach my husband after I walked in on him watching porn?

sandra t

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My husband and I have been together for five years and married for three. We have what I feel like is a healthy sexual relationship. We're intimate about 2-3 times a week. Today I walked into our computer room and he was obviously watching porn. I couldn't really see what it was but he looked totally guilty while he frantically tried to close the browser. I asked him what he was watching and he just kinda of shrugged his shoulders as if saying, "what do you want me to say, you saw it." I was so surprised I couldn't really react and continued with the reason I was in the room-to show him a new water filter I had purchased.

So porn doesn't really creep me out. I don't think my husband is sick or anything but I'm bothered by it more than I thought I would be. I felt all the typical things I guess, unattractive and like I'm not giving him what he needs. But I kind of get that all guys will find porn enticing or whatever.

Any tips about how to approach him without freaking out?
 
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