Blueberry Head
New member
Etiquette)? I'm friends with a group of people I've known for over a year, most of my friends I've known for much longer. It's sort of a group with tentacles in all sorts of places so not a closed group. Anyway it seems like I'm partially in but not. I'll get invited to some events but not others. Sometimes they'll go for a trip or something a few days after we've all been out together or something and I won't get invited. I can't quite figure it out, do they just forget me because I haven't known them all as long, or maybe it's a different person instigating it? It makes me sad sometimes because I'll go to something I've been invited to and they'll seem to accept me and mention further events but then other stuff a lot of them will go to without me and I won't even get an invite. I'm not sure what to do, I hate self-invitations though maybe that's part of it if it's a big group event?