How old were you the first time you had sex (GUYS AND GIRLS)?

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imported_lady_gaga

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would you recommend that age or have your first time be at a different age if you could do it over? I'm 16 now and i feel like everyone else has done it. So many guys ask me out but i never say yes bc im afraid that they only want sex, not me. I really want to go out with this gut who is 19, but i think that would have a baddd outcome. too much pressure?
 
I was 18. My guy was also 18. We were each other's firsts. Personally, I'm glad I waited until I was a little older and found a guy who it was worth giving it to.

You're only 16, which is a little young for this 19 year old guy. (I say this because I myself am 19 and would never even contemplate about dating a 16 year old. No offense intended.) Usually, when older guys are poking around and are interested in younger women, it's because of sex and they think they can get sex easier. Just stick with guys your own age and only have sex when you are ready. Never let anyone pressure you into anything you aren't ready for. :)
 
I was 15, and no I would do the same thing over. I was ready. When you do have sex it needs to be when you are ready, not because everyone else is doing it. Also when you do have sex make sure its SAFE sex. I know its a stupid saying, but in 9 months you don't want to be a mom at 16
 
i was 16. i wish i would have waited. i was not ready for that kind of pressure. a 19 year old guy is only looking for one thing... sex... you should wait. not every guy you meet wants it. just try and find the right one and set boundaries early on in the relationship.
hope that helped
 
i was 14 and pushed into it. It was a very bad thing to do and has contributed to years of bad patterns with men. To tell you the truth, when i was making love with my husband, i wished with all my heart that he had been the only one, but he wasn't. I would wait until you are sure. I will tell you why. When you have sex with someone, your brain imprints on it and will replay the session over and over and over... do you want something less than wonderful and beautiful to be playing over and over in your head and your heart? Do NOTHING that is less than you are. keep sex sacred.
 
I lost my virginity when i was 16 (pretty much 17. my gf lost it when she was 15 going on 16. it really all just matters if you are ready and if he is right for you. I don't regret a second of it because i'm still with her and love her deeply. and sex is awesome
 
I'm 17 and haven't done it yet. If I could turn back time, I'd do it at 15.

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