I have been with my GF for just over 6 years, we have had a rough year because my partners mum became terminal and our sex life took a dive (I totally understand that she would not be in the mood with such devastating news and issues to deal with) but since her mum passed away (5 months now) our sex life is very little now. I feel like ive just become use to not getting it on a regular basis and when I say regular I mean 3 times a month before we got into this rut, we don't live together and only get to see each other weekends so thats why it has never been majorly frequent but has been ok for both of us. We are in abit of a rut and I would like to work it out, I know my GF wants to fix it too and actually has a higher sex drive than me, but now im curious to know how often do long term Lesbian couples have sex, per week or per month? What is the frequency of sex within the relationship? Its a question I have been looking up all day online and there is plenty of information on straight couple sex frequency (Alot of long term couples calming they have sex 4-5 times a week in 10+ year relationships, making me feel totally inadequate) but cant find any on Lesbian relationships. Could someone let me know if they have any info online or what the go is with you if you are in a long term relationship?
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