am not talking about initially having the first encounter, but a boyfriend or girlfriend you have been with for years who is going through issues in the bedroom department and you previously had a great sexual relationship with. Say this boyfriend or girlfriend just didn't want to have sex because of "stress" but still claimed he or she wanted to be with you. How long would you wait until you moved on/broke up with him or her? I am not talking about a couple weeks or anything trivial like that...oh, and you've tried to talk to him or her but again, he or she just claims they want to be with you and a string of excuses.