How long will a man wait for sex?

[samantha2008]

A man IN LOVE I might add. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a couple months, and while he is not a virgin, I still am. From the very first month, he asked me when I would be ready to engage in oral and because it was my first serious relationship, I had no idea whether it was normal for guys to ask this quickly or not. Well, he has been with me for a year now and I've only done a hand job. He says he loves me, but he wonders why I claim to love him so much when I can't give him every part of me. He says that we're a dysfunctional relationship and that he's going to just watch me rip the relationship to pieces. Men, please be honest, let's say you are thinking of this girl as a potential marriage partner...how long would you wait for oral? intercourse? If it helps I'm turning 17 this year and he is turning 18.

 

[SDR]

wow i'm surprised he waited a year usually all the guys i've seen have pressured their girls after 3 months. But anyways don't let him pressure you into doing anything you aren't ready for. If he does then i don't think he loves you as much as he says he does, any man that loves should be able to wait till you're ready.

 

[MICHELLE R]

this is a very common in young relationships. the truth of the matter is if u r not ready then your not ready. If he can not respect that then he doesn't really love you. i know plenty of girls who wish they would have waited and found the right guy before losing there virginity. you hold the power in your hands to say yes or no. but you should really think about any sexual activities before doing them and don't do anything you have doubt about or you will regret it.