I have been dating a girl I know from college for almost three months. Right away I was quite forward about sex, but she wasn't ready, she said. I was fine with that but when we would kiss I would basically go as far as I could (hey being honest here!). After two or three weeks, she let me go down on her. It was nice, but she didnt do anything back for me once she was done. Now its been months later, and she says she is still not ready to go all the way, because of bad experiences with her last boyfriend who did drugs, cheated on and hit her. She also says she is not ready to give me oral sex. However she always accepts when I offer to do that for her, and even asks for me to do it at times - lately she asks me pretty often, basically every time we are together. So I have given her orgasms more times than I can count, but gotten back nothing so far! So my question is whether I should I keep pleasing her and be patient, should I stop going down on her or should I start thinking about ending it? I really really like her (otherwise i wouldnt have put up with sexual onesidedness) and just wish i had a normal sex life with her. I get frustrated because before the last boyfriend she had she had quite a few boyfriends and flings and its just this last guy that made her want to change her life, so I have come along with bad timing in a way...I really understand what she is going through, and want to be there with her when she feels ready. We have talked about this and she says she can't be sure when she will feel ready to go all the way, though what we have now is special, and she doesnt want to lose me. Please, any ideas for what to do?
I apologize for reposting this, but I am very greatful for the help, and have learned a lot from you guys!
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Maybe I should add: I am the first person who has ever given her regular orgasms from oral sex. She says that this is building her trust and making her confidence come back, making her feel more sexy again. If I threaten to stop pleasing her, will it damage this progress?
I apologize for reposting this, but I am very greatful for the help, and have learned a lot from you guys!
Additional Details
Maybe I should add: I am the first person who has ever given her regular orgasms from oral sex. She says that this is building her trust and making her confidence come back, making her feel more sexy again. If I threaten to stop pleasing her, will it damage this progress?