I have been with my boy friend for almost 4 years now. He cheated on me over a year ago with an ex and have just came clean recently. I kinda knew that he cheated on me, but he never admitted it, so I let it be. Now I am stuck in this rut of not knowing what I want to do.
I know he loves me, he has been there for me through a lot of stuff. He pays my bills and takes care of me, while I havent worked much in the past 2 years, as well just started college, and he is helping me pay for that. I know he cares about me.. But I don't want to have to feel the way I have been. I talk to him, I ask questions.. Everything, even counseling.. I just don't know how long someone should feel this way before they call it quits.. I don't want to hurt him, but at the same time i am so scared that he is going to hurt me again... How long does it take to get over something like this??
I know he loves me, he has been there for me through a lot of stuff. He pays my bills and takes care of me, while I havent worked much in the past 2 years, as well just started college, and he is helping me pay for that. I know he cares about me.. But I don't want to have to feel the way I have been. I talk to him, I ask questions.. Everything, even counseling.. I just don't know how long someone should feel this way before they call it quits.. I don't want to hurt him, but at the same time i am so scared that he is going to hurt me again... How long does it take to get over something like this??