Sex for the first time depends on whether it is your first time or your first time with the person you truly love. If it's the first time just to have sex it's not fireworks, bells and whistles. Whether it hurts is more an individual thing, for me it didn't. If you are having sex for the first time with someone who is your soul mate it is the most wonderful feeling and you wish that time stood still and you could stay that way forever.
