and a half years..? There was a time when he would stay at my place so often that it was practicaly living together...we decided against it when my orthodox neighbors started to give us trouble. ...but what level of intimacy can two people share when they are sure it is the "real thing"..? like sometimes i get a little late in getting waxed..but im not particularly hairy so it doesnt bother and he doesnt complain...but is that wrong...? or is it wrong that we sometimes have sex without showering first..? or that we can talk about stuff like potty and snot..? it doesn't feel un-natural but i just want to know if its normal...he and i started going out together only after being best friends for almost a year and a half ..so we dont lie to each other and we'r able to share just about anything...unless its not my secret to share that is..bt is being dull or being gross allowed sometimes..?