I used to think that it was everything but as I got older I started asking myself how important is it really? Is it more important than stability and comfort?
I don't think that my fiancee and I are sexually compatible at all. While I was so excited to get married because now we can be sexual exploratory and know that the other isn't judging the other, he maintained his previous mannerisms. I didn't expect him to change but I thought that he might loosen up.
For example, he believes that bjs are for birthdays and using fingers is immature. He doesn't use his tongue... FOR ANYTHING not even kissing. BUT I catch him watching porn all the time. So why would you watch that stuff if you didn't want to do what they were doing? Or at least watch it with me?
On the flip side, I don't worry about him cheating on me or worry about my unborn son not affording the best the schools. We regularly take weekend road trips, and sometimes he helps with the dishes after dinner. His feelings are hurt when I can't make it to have lunch with him at his work and he wants to buy anything I say I want.
So on the outside, we have this great relationship but really it's a different story. Under the motto 'you can't have everything,' I know I should stop complaining but I am not sure I can commit the rest of my life to him.
Oh!! And I tried the whole talking to him, thing. It doesn't work.
I don't think that my fiancee and I are sexually compatible at all. While I was so excited to get married because now we can be sexual exploratory and know that the other isn't judging the other, he maintained his previous mannerisms. I didn't expect him to change but I thought that he might loosen up.
For example, he believes that bjs are for birthdays and using fingers is immature. He doesn't use his tongue... FOR ANYTHING not even kissing. BUT I catch him watching porn all the time. So why would you watch that stuff if you didn't want to do what they were doing? Or at least watch it with me?
On the flip side, I don't worry about him cheating on me or worry about my unborn son not affording the best the schools. We regularly take weekend road trips, and sometimes he helps with the dishes after dinner. His feelings are hurt when I can't make it to have lunch with him at his work and he wants to buy anything I say I want.
So on the outside, we have this great relationship but really it's a different story. Under the motto 'you can't have everything,' I know I should stop complaining but I am not sure I can commit the rest of my life to him.
Oh!! And I tried the whole talking to him, thing. It doesn't work.