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Rather your current spouse or when spouse was your bf/gf - or a relationship prior even.
How has someones influence affected you.. both negatively and positively...
OR how had your spouse grown with YOU - things you can see.
Were the changes on purpose (eg you were given a choice,m do this or do not do this or I am out of here) or were the changes something that made sense to you to just do (eg this person does not smoke, so I am quitting smoking around them - with no prompting from them) OR was it subtle, like you did not even realize it and the next thing you know you are no longer flirting with other men or he is no longer doing boys nights out... or some combo of those things...
And if you (or partner) grew because of your relationship... do you feel like a better person or do you feel you have lost part of who you are or who you want to be?
How has someones influence affected you.. both negatively and positively...
OR how had your spouse grown with YOU - things you can see.
Were the changes on purpose (eg you were given a choice,m do this or do not do this or I am out of here) or were the changes something that made sense to you to just do (eg this person does not smoke, so I am quitting smoking around them - with no prompting from them) OR was it subtle, like you did not even realize it and the next thing you know you are no longer flirting with other men or he is no longer doing boys nights out... or some combo of those things...
And if you (or partner) grew because of your relationship... do you feel like a better person or do you feel you have lost part of who you are or who you want to be?