How far can you go before it counts as sex before marriage?

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I am engaged to be married and the date is set to the middle of July.
But now my fiance is trying to push me into having sex before our wedding.

I want to wait, since I am a virgin and I have decided a long time ago that I would save myself for my husband.

At the same time I don't want to my fiance unhappy. So how far could we go before it counts as sex before marriage? Is it just intercourse that counts?

It is important to me to follow the words of God. So please help me!

We have kissed and hugged. But he has never seen me naked.
 
Then stop touching and invoke the talmudic laws of Shomer Negiah. Otherwise, you are messing around in "SIN"!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
If he doesnt' love and respect and honor you enough to wait, LEAVE HIM. No sex before marriage. Wheat he's trying to do to you isn't love at all, it's totally selfish on his part. Don't compromise your convictions because of that. Follow God, please please. Better to obey God, and be blessed, than obey some guy, and sin. We are to "flee sexual immorality". If somebody is trying to manipulate you into sexual sin, FLEEEE! God bless, and I hope you stay strong in the Lord.
 
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