My ex was pysically and verbally abusive to me and controlling he is due in court on monday for assault on me i have asked for a restaining order but it still makes me feel uneasy as i dont know what he is capable of esspecialy when we have a 9 week old son ho i have said he can only see supervised .
I had a risk assesment done and scored 14 which is high im trying to get a move but im scared that hes going to punish me for this im scared of doing school run or even going out side for a cigarette .
If he comes for me how can i protect myself and what if he does hurt me and i have no time to react,
These things are going through my mind im trying to live a normal life but i dont know what to think he may do nothing but i dont want to take risks as i have children
Advice please
I dont know he will reacthe ended realtionship cos it went to far with police but hes never been to court or been denied access before
I had a risk assesment done and scored 14 which is high im trying to get a move but im scared that hes going to punish me for this im scared of doing school run or even going out side for a cigarette .
If he comes for me how can i protect myself and what if he does hurt me and i have no time to react,
These things are going through my mind im trying to live a normal life but i dont know what to think he may do nothing but i dont want to take risks as i have children
Advice please
I dont know he will reacthe ended realtionship cos it went to far with police but hes never been to court or been denied access before