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In the past I didn't have a strong desire for marriage, it's like, yeah it would be cool but I don't have my whole wedding planned out like some girls/women.
However, things are a little different now, for some time now that thought of marriage is something I've thought about a lot.
If the person that I'm imagining my life with decides he doesn't want get married after all, what am I to do? I know I'll eventually be fine, but how do you throw the idea away so quickly and was I so foolish to even let myself see us together (as did he)
Not like he made a promise, but my feelings have been there, he expressed the same
Gosh, why do we let ourselves "fall", it's so obnoxious and stupid and I should know better
*I guess this is another lessen learned.... self control is the key right? Even though he spoke of it, I should not have imagined it, I should have shut down any pictures of the future
AW! Thanks you guys! I went to the meeting and it was SO encouraging, it's our CO(sub)visit and tons of awesome informal witnessing experiences so this helped.
Then coming home and reading your answers, aw makin me tear up. You're all right, falling is wonderful but not when you get hurt; I mean the future is uncertain at this point...so, my hearts not totally broken, just a little scratched.. and he's not a bad person at all, he's amazing and our feelings are mutual, but there's some fickleness
I've overcome a broken heart once before so if it does end up breaking, I know Jehovah will help me again like last time, I was younger then though, not sure if that's worse or better haha. This time it's more serious, and we are friends and it grew to more..sigh. I'll be fine, with Jehovah's guidance and direction and support.
Thanks again! Much appreciated!
However, things are a little different now, for some time now that thought of marriage is something I've thought about a lot.
If the person that I'm imagining my life with decides he doesn't want get married after all, what am I to do? I know I'll eventually be fine, but how do you throw the idea away so quickly and was I so foolish to even let myself see us together (as did he)
Not like he made a promise, but my feelings have been there, he expressed the same
Gosh, why do we let ourselves "fall", it's so obnoxious and stupid and I should know better
*I guess this is another lessen learned.... self control is the key right? Even though he spoke of it, I should not have imagined it, I should have shut down any pictures of the future
AW! Thanks you guys! I went to the meeting and it was SO encouraging, it's our CO(sub)visit and tons of awesome informal witnessing experiences so this helped.
Then coming home and reading your answers, aw makin me tear up. You're all right, falling is wonderful but not when you get hurt; I mean the future is uncertain at this point...so, my hearts not totally broken, just a little scratched.. and he's not a bad person at all, he's amazing and our feelings are mutual, but there's some fickleness
I've overcome a broken heart once before so if it does end up breaking, I know Jehovah will help me again like last time, I was younger then though, not sure if that's worse or better haha. This time it's more serious, and we are friends and it grew to more..sigh. I'll be fine, with Jehovah's guidance and direction and support.
Thanks again! Much appreciated!