going crazy bride
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...without asking the bride? My future husband had four jobs to ask his three friends to be groomsmen and ask his three year old niece to be our flower girl. He has two other nieces 9 and 17. I would love to include them in the wedding but not sure where to put them we hadn't decided. So obviously I was not thrilled when right in front of me he asked the oldest to be a brides maid (with her Boyfriend as the escort) and the younger one to be a junior brides maid. Both the parents of these girls are not working so the responsibility of buying their dresses falls on us. And Ive already made sacrifices left and right to save money on the wedding the only money left to pluck for these girls dresses is from my wedding dress fund 
Is their any way I can graciously remove the girls from the bridal party or assign them an important role that does not require a special dress?
I dont think its rude to say i dont want to take money out of my wedding dress fund i dont think my Future sis in law would have taken money out of her wedding budget for me or my kids. plus were already paying for there hotel rooms and transportation to the wedding so i hardly see us looking rude
Is their any way I can graciously remove the girls from the bridal party or assign them an important role that does not require a special dress?I dont think its rude to say i dont want to take money out of my wedding dress fund i dont think my Future sis in law would have taken money out of her wedding budget for me or my kids. plus were already paying for there hotel rooms and transportation to the wedding so i hardly see us looking rude