Helloooo nurse
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When i was in college, i was "talking" to this guy (about 4-5 years ago)...and dated BRIEFLY. No commitment or relationship. No sex. I finally got him off my back and he dated this girl for 2 years. Everytime he's single he always wants to come back to me. Even when I had my boyfriend at that time, he still would hit on me. I had to ask him one question (innocent question for all mutual friends) and he took it as a sign that I was interested and even when I've turned him down (twice) this year so far, he's still asking me, "what's going on friday night". The last time I saw him was last october (get-together w. mutual friends and he was happen to be there). I was polite, said "hi" and just avoided him. When he was drunk, I felt he was being creepy and my intuition told me he's always going to feel a certain way w. me. That night he seemed to want to take pictures w me and during the times I couldn't escape, I just gave an ugly or funny face and left. The week after I told him what he did, had a decent convo w. him but he's one of those guys that take a decent convo or a simple text as interest. I'm not a flirt at all. I have a co-worker (who could be my grandpa) and told me that I need to be "extra careful" bc from a "guy's point of view", I'm considered a "very beautiful lady who's also very mannered and nice" which he says is "rare" now a days bc you either get one or the other.
He never said he was interested but my intuition and common sense says he is (even though I haven't talked or showed any interest at all). I don't wanna ignore the guy NOR tell him, "oh i'm not interested in you." bc he never said he was. I think i'll just say I'm busy or just text when I get to it? (my actions are already telling of how I really feel). And this is not a b*tchy move bc when guys aren't interested, they just pay no attention or give an excuse...and their actions are just as telling w. how they feel. Even for someone who's 24, it's still a "little boy" approach. A real gentleman would let it go and respect the woman's rejections, right? (what's puzzling (according to my guy friends) is why would he keep pursuing me when I'm out of his league? NOTE: these are my guy friends talking)...
He never said he was interested but my intuition and common sense says he is (even though I haven't talked or showed any interest at all). I don't wanna ignore the guy NOR tell him, "oh i'm not interested in you." bc he never said he was. I think i'll just say I'm busy or just text when I get to it? (my actions are already telling of how I really feel). And this is not a b*tchy move bc when guys aren't interested, they just pay no attention or give an excuse...and their actions are just as telling w. how they feel. Even for someone who's 24, it's still a "little boy" approach. A real gentleman would let it go and respect the woman's rejections, right? (what's puzzling (according to my guy friends) is why would he keep pursuing me when I'm out of his league? NOTE: these are my guy friends talking)...