How do you not be clingy when in a relashionship?

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i just love her so much but i dont want to be annoying or clingy. i know she likes me too and ive never really been in a relashionship before (im 17) so i dont really know what to do. just because they dont talk to you every second doesnt mean that they dont like you right? any advice? thanks!
 
good luck

just try to find some things to do with your time;
its ok to always think about them. but contacting them every sec can get annoying to the other person. just because they dont talk to you doesn't mean there not thinking about you; !!! everyone needs there space =] !
 
don't listen to adren he has nothing better to do. you need to be yourself if you like talking to her all the time then call her all the time. don't worry she'll tell you if she doesn't like it.
 
Well your first relationships are always clingy but you have to think of one word SPACE have some alone time just regular alone time watching tv, read a book, get ahead n homework stuff like that Sundays can be your away time from eachother
I know it seems like an hour away fom that person seems like an eternity but think of how you feel when you see that person the next day it keeps excitement your relationship cause constantly having a guy n my face ffor 2 months str8 gets annoying I mean when I have to say "its me not you"
 
You get there by figuring out that you have *within yourself* everything you need to survive and be happy. The more of that power you hand over to another person, the more desperate and clingy you will be to try to make sure you don't lose it. Unfortunately, that very behavior is more likely to push the other person away. The source of annoying clinginess is fear: fear of the potential loss of something essential. The more ability you have to meet your own needs, and the more supportive people you have in your life to enrich it, the less desperate you will be to hang onto one particular relationship for dear life, most likely smothering it in the process.
 
just be yourself... but dont smother them.. like dont be like "were are you going, with who, what time are you coming back...etc." my moms girlfriend does that all the time and it kinda is ruining her relationship with her.. its okay to be clingy just not to much.
 
just be yourself... but dont smother them.. like dont be like "were are you going, with who, what time are you coming back...etc." my moms girlfriend does that all the time and it kinda is ruining her relationship with her.. its okay to be clingy just not to much.
 
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