My name is Anthony, and I will say right away that I am a total workaholic. I am currently finishing up my masters in Music then off for the doctorate, I am also a commissioned composer doing work with Tree House Productions, I teach voice, piano, and theory and I'm also a 911 dispatcher at night.
I have just moved to a new town maybe about 7 months ago, and I have had a few relationships. but one cheated, and the other we just didn't see eye to eye. The thing is, since them I really have not met anyone new. I do go out from time to time, I'm not totally antisocial, but I just feel so out of place here at the clubs. It is a bit ghetto, and I'm not trying to be stuck up, but seriously it truly isn't my crowd. The few new people that I have met at clubs were after "it" and I just can't do that. I'm trying to find a lasting relationship, it doesn't mean for life, but at least something real you know.
So my question is, how can I meet new guys or attract someone to want to come speak to me when I'm out and about without there being a sexual pretext? Or am I just a lost cause? ha-ha
I have just moved to a new town maybe about 7 months ago, and I have had a few relationships. but one cheated, and the other we just didn't see eye to eye. The thing is, since them I really have not met anyone new. I do go out from time to time, I'm not totally antisocial, but I just feel so out of place here at the clubs. It is a bit ghetto, and I'm not trying to be stuck up, but seriously it truly isn't my crowd. The few new people that I have met at clubs were after "it" and I just can't do that. I'm trying to find a lasting relationship, it doesn't mean for life, but at least something real you know.
So my question is, how can I meet new guys or attract someone to want to come speak to me when I'm out and about without there being a sexual pretext? Or am I just a lost cause? ha-ha