Hi, My husband and I have not been have sex that much because of his vasectomy that he had and me having problems with it. I Love my husband more then anything and want to make our life better. Im a very shy person and think that he is going to look at me like im dumb if I come up with new things. He is not a shy person in anyway (Loves porn and playing with himself) Our 4 month old is now sleeping threw the night so we can have sometime to ourselfs, Please help what should I do?