we are a lesbian couple my wife and i want to have a baby but she wnts me to adopt our child before the baby is born. how do we get the information on doing that.
You can't adopt a child that is not born yet, you'd have to do it after the birth. And it depends on the same-sex adoption laws in your state. You'll need to contact a family lawyer to advise you through the process.
some states dont allow same sex adoptions like this but regardless with any adoption you have to wait until the baby is born. now there is a way if your state does not allow the adoption then you could have legal gardianship and that allows you to have a say with the child. the best thing to do is ask a laywer.
