Hey y'all. I asked this here earlier today. The only suggestion I got was to write her a note. I'm in college and thinking that may be too...immature? Also, do you think she may be interested? I'm afraid of pursuing a straight girl.
This girl is not the least bit talkative. She doesn't talk to anyone in the class and she really doesn't want to. She is unapproachable and she is rude/uninterested when someone in the class asks her something. Yet, when I first talked to her, she was really interested and was smiling, eyes shining, bashful and everything. She, however, did not add much to the conversation. We were discussing something for class and she just said a lot of idk's. Perhaps she just isn't the most intellectual of people...
But the other day, she tried making an effort to speak to me in class. It was a terrible time to do so, but I noticed. And the next day, she tried catching my eye and kept looking at me around someone else. So I think maybe she does like me, and for someone so shy, she seems to be trying. I'm just finding it really difficult to do anything about it. I'm not shy but I'm also not the most extroverted person. I'm not out so I'm not forward at all, I've never had a gf. What do I do? Asking her out is sooo far down on my list because I really fear asking anyone out. At least, I'd like to be more positive she's into me before doing anything. So, if talking with her is hard, what do I do? I'm finding myself really interested in her somehow.
This girl is not the least bit talkative. She doesn't talk to anyone in the class and she really doesn't want to. She is unapproachable and she is rude/uninterested when someone in the class asks her something. Yet, when I first talked to her, she was really interested and was smiling, eyes shining, bashful and everything. She, however, did not add much to the conversation. We were discussing something for class and she just said a lot of idk's. Perhaps she just isn't the most intellectual of people...
But the other day, she tried making an effort to speak to me in class. It was a terrible time to do so, but I noticed. And the next day, she tried catching my eye and kept looking at me around someone else. So I think maybe she does like me, and for someone so shy, she seems to be trying. I'm just finding it really difficult to do anything about it. I'm not shy but I'm also not the most extroverted person. I'm not out so I'm not forward at all, I've never had a gf. What do I do? Asking her out is sooo far down on my list because I really fear asking anyone out. At least, I'd like to be more positive she's into me before doing anything. So, if talking with her is hard, what do I do? I'm finding myself really interested in her somehow.