little miss sunshine
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...considers it arguing? Right now I am 27 wks pregnant and just moved in with my fiance. Things are good but it seems as if he expects our relationship to be perfect and for us to not have any disagreements. Ok, in all honesty, we really don't argue or fight but any time I disagree with him he considers it as starting a fight and how he thought I was perfect for him, but now he is starting to think otherwise. He even tells me if we break up that I could still stay in his apt. rent free etc. I personally feel that he is saying this bc he does not want me to move back home to my family.
I moved about 6 hrs to be with him in a city in which I don't know anyone and I feel the best course of action would be for me to just go back home.
I am just frustrated bc he gets mad bc i wont agree to PDA, bc I hold diff. political views than he does, it seems that he expects me to agree with everything he says. His mom agrees with me and has said that he cannot expect me to agree with everything and if I decide to disagree then he starts bringing up how he is worried about our future.
What should I do about this situation? I do not want to break up w/ him but at the same time I am tired of his behavior. I think his main concern about me not moving is that he does not want to pay child support.
As I mentioned before any time I disagree with him it is grounds for breaking up. His mom told me how her and his dad used to argue and even scream and yell when they got together.
The thing is that I am very very open minded and I dont push my beliefs on anyone. When discusses his views on politics, I usually don't respond. He takes that as I am disagreeing, etc.
I dont try to change him, it's just that each time I disagree with something, he thinks it is arguing and fighting.
The thing is that we NEVER raise our voice at each other.
For example, I know certain things make him uncomfortable, right? So I don't do those things around him. When it comes to things that bother me, he does not show me the same courtesy. How is that fair?
Also, I waited a WHILE before having sex with him. I was a virgin and really got to know him. The only thing is that we were not living together.
I moved about 6 hrs to be with him in a city in which I don't know anyone and I feel the best course of action would be for me to just go back home.
I am just frustrated bc he gets mad bc i wont agree to PDA, bc I hold diff. political views than he does, it seems that he expects me to agree with everything he says. His mom agrees with me and has said that he cannot expect me to agree with everything and if I decide to disagree then he starts bringing up how he is worried about our future.
What should I do about this situation? I do not want to break up w/ him but at the same time I am tired of his behavior. I think his main concern about me not moving is that he does not want to pay child support.
As I mentioned before any time I disagree with him it is grounds for breaking up. His mom told me how her and his dad used to argue and even scream and yell when they got together.
The thing is that I am very very open minded and I dont push my beliefs on anyone. When discusses his views on politics, I usually don't respond. He takes that as I am disagreeing, etc.
I dont try to change him, it's just that each time I disagree with something, he thinks it is arguing and fighting.
The thing is that we NEVER raise our voice at each other.
For example, I know certain things make him uncomfortable, right? So I don't do those things around him. When it comes to things that bother me, he does not show me the same courtesy. How is that fair?
Also, I waited a WHILE before having sex with him. I was a virgin and really got to know him. The only thing is that we were not living together.