Ok so me and this cute little blonde find ourselves in a problem. I dated a girl for 3 years, had a kid with her, she broke up with me for another guy. 6 months goes by and then she and this guy dont make it, she moves into my apartment as a roomate. We have a child together and I wanted to be as normal as possible in the situation. The problem is the same day I met this girl which was about 6 years ago I met her friend michelle. We all used to hang out and have such a good time, I always had a little thing for michelle, but never told her. After a few months we stopped hanging out with everyone and spent 3 years being pretty much to ourselves, now 6 months after we break up and she moves back in I get into contact with michelle, first it was talking online, then texting. I felt some sort of wierd connection between us and wanted to see if things could turn into something more. We hung out once, i took her to dennys cause thats where she loves to eat, and I felt such a strong bond with her, long story short 4 weeks later and after hanging out numerous times we are stuck with this situation where we dont know how to tell her friend that her and I want to see eachother... Just wondering if anyone has any input on how to break the news to this girl. Im crazy about michelle, and pretty sure she is crazy about me. is there an easy way to tell a friend, or an ex that you and someone else is gonna start something? it's complicated, and it's going to suck! unfortunately Im not willing to just let it go, and give up. I dont really care what it takes, or how many people get their feelings hurt, I have a good feeling about this girl and want it to work out. maybe not forever, but longer than 4 weeks. please help us, personal experiences would be great. if I go another week without a solution then Im just gonna spill the beans and deal with it when the dust settles.
How do you break the news that you want to see your ex's best friend?
- Thread starter Chase B
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