This DOES have a question, sorry if I rant or beat around the bush at times.
I am a teenager.
How do other people probably see me?
I KNOW this crap is asked a lot but I can't seem to find a good answer.
When I look at my head, only above my neck, I do think I am kind of pretty. I think I have really nice hair, I put effort into my appearance and I am told it looks nice. I suck at taking compliments though, and I know it's annoying cause people do the same to me. I am a little chubby, but I have oddly skinny legs. I took dance and like all of my weight shed off my legs. It's freaking stupid. But yeah I do have a little belly, but I don't think, comparatively, I am some huge mass. Anyways, I know people don't pay as much attention to me and my flaws as I do. I'm curious what other people think when they think of my appearance. I have big brown eyes and no acne or bumps on my face which I am quite proud of. I do have red cheeks but I cover them with subtle makeup purchased from clinique to match my skin. I like it. I guess my question is: "Can people think girls with nice hair, nice face and slightly chubby are still pretty?"
I feel like no one is attracted to me.
I'm trying this thing where I maintain a positive outlook on myself. I am outgoing, friendly, witty, and humorous(I'd like to think), and I know when someone I find unattractive asks me out I think I'm too good for them. |: I know, crappy and hypocritical. But attraction is key in a relationship.
WOW, tangents.
Okay, do not mention anything about working out. I mentioned that I'm chubby so you can get kind of an image. I already have personal goals and diets and exorcises I'm working on so please stick to my main question. I maintain healthy eating and drinking habits. I drink VERY limited soda, and I really don't eat much junk.
I am simply curious.
I know going into such detail on a single topic will seem like I'm obsessed with it, but that is surely not the case.
I do want to know what people are thinking, and I am kind of self-conscious, but you couldn't tell unless you were my best friend or me. I usually think about school during the day, not my appearance. But when I get home and look in the mirror, I do wonder what I look like to others. I feel if anyone were attracted to me, it would be solely because of my personality. I think I'm a pretty good human being.
GAH!
A slap in the face?
I mean it's not like I CRY in my pillow at night.
I am allowed to be aware of other people's opinions.
I do care about my appearance. Why would women even enhance their features if not to impress someone? So sue me for wanting an idea of what people think.
I mean really.
People are JUDGED by their appearance.
Admit it or not, it's how people are.
People around me, at the very least.
I wanna know how people see me. Is that so wrong?
I am a teenager.
How do other people probably see me?
I KNOW this crap is asked a lot but I can't seem to find a good answer.
When I look at my head, only above my neck, I do think I am kind of pretty. I think I have really nice hair, I put effort into my appearance and I am told it looks nice. I suck at taking compliments though, and I know it's annoying cause people do the same to me. I am a little chubby, but I have oddly skinny legs. I took dance and like all of my weight shed off my legs. It's freaking stupid. But yeah I do have a little belly, but I don't think, comparatively, I am some huge mass. Anyways, I know people don't pay as much attention to me and my flaws as I do. I'm curious what other people think when they think of my appearance. I have big brown eyes and no acne or bumps on my face which I am quite proud of. I do have red cheeks but I cover them with subtle makeup purchased from clinique to match my skin. I like it. I guess my question is: "Can people think girls with nice hair, nice face and slightly chubby are still pretty?"
I feel like no one is attracted to me.
I'm trying this thing where I maintain a positive outlook on myself. I am outgoing, friendly, witty, and humorous(I'd like to think), and I know when someone I find unattractive asks me out I think I'm too good for them. |: I know, crappy and hypocritical. But attraction is key in a relationship.
WOW, tangents.
Okay, do not mention anything about working out. I mentioned that I'm chubby so you can get kind of an image. I already have personal goals and diets and exorcises I'm working on so please stick to my main question. I maintain healthy eating and drinking habits. I drink VERY limited soda, and I really don't eat much junk.
I am simply curious.
I know going into such detail on a single topic will seem like I'm obsessed with it, but that is surely not the case.
I do want to know what people are thinking, and I am kind of self-conscious, but you couldn't tell unless you were my best friend or me. I usually think about school during the day, not my appearance. But when I get home and look in the mirror, I do wonder what I look like to others. I feel if anyone were attracted to me, it would be solely because of my personality. I think I'm a pretty good human being.
GAH!
A slap in the face?
I mean it's not like I CRY in my pillow at night.
I am allowed to be aware of other people's opinions.
I do care about my appearance. Why would women even enhance their features if not to impress someone? So sue me for wanting an idea of what people think.
I mean really.
People are JUDGED by their appearance.
Admit it or not, it's how people are.
People around me, at the very least.
I wanna know how people see me. Is that so wrong?