Just a bit of background on me and my situation.
Im 21, have been in a relationship for 5 years.
I have recently gone through alot of painful changes.
My team at work were transfered to another office and the move has been a messy one. Corporations that take over smaller companies are truely ruthless.
I have recently come back from a life changing european holiday...it was a truely amazing experiance!!
I have 3 very close friends, who I have in the past shared everything with. Coincidently, all three have moved to separate locations across aussi in the past 2 months, so i havent really had them around to lean on.
My relationship is becoming stale, as i have gone through so many changes since weve been together my direction is not parrallel with his....Im confused tho, cos i love him dearly....just have lost all the passion and have become more so mates more then anything.
Anyway to the point.
At this new office i work at i sit next to a guy, who i happen to have alot in common with. We love the same kinda music....and music is my life!!
Iv hung out with him outa work for drinks and have gone to see a few bands with him. Wev had some indepth chats about many things and share very similar values and ideals. He is not lettin g off any vibes, but i geniunly think thats cos he is a decent guy and is respecting my boyfriend. Which is a truelly good thing.
But i have formed an obessive crush on this guy (sounds like high school, I know)....it has simply come out of no where....its not a physical attraction..its purely due to the fact that he is an amazing person.
I dont know how to unlike someone i sit next to every day.
I know that i should not hang out with him after work and i will put a stop to that before he clues on.
Iv gotten myself into a pickle....but i truely believe its because I have been so lost and lonely with all of these crazy changes...i dunno he's just been a bit of light at the end of the tunnell.
how do i deal with this situation. I dont wanna quit my job....to escape this irrelevant crush.
And i wanna try to re-ignight the flame lost between me and my boyfriend...
Once again, please dont judge. This is not one of my finest moments
Im 21, have been in a relationship for 5 years.
I have recently gone through alot of painful changes.
My team at work were transfered to another office and the move has been a messy one. Corporations that take over smaller companies are truely ruthless.
I have recently come back from a life changing european holiday...it was a truely amazing experiance!!
I have 3 very close friends, who I have in the past shared everything with. Coincidently, all three have moved to separate locations across aussi in the past 2 months, so i havent really had them around to lean on.
My relationship is becoming stale, as i have gone through so many changes since weve been together my direction is not parrallel with his....Im confused tho, cos i love him dearly....just have lost all the passion and have become more so mates more then anything.
Anyway to the point.
At this new office i work at i sit next to a guy, who i happen to have alot in common with. We love the same kinda music....and music is my life!!
Iv hung out with him outa work for drinks and have gone to see a few bands with him. Wev had some indepth chats about many things and share very similar values and ideals. He is not lettin g off any vibes, but i geniunly think thats cos he is a decent guy and is respecting my boyfriend. Which is a truelly good thing.
But i have formed an obessive crush on this guy (sounds like high school, I know)....it has simply come out of no where....its not a physical attraction..its purely due to the fact that he is an amazing person.
I dont know how to unlike someone i sit next to every day.
I know that i should not hang out with him after work and i will put a stop to that before he clues on.
Iv gotten myself into a pickle....but i truely believe its because I have been so lost and lonely with all of these crazy changes...i dunno he's just been a bit of light at the end of the tunnell.
how do i deal with this situation. I dont wanna quit my job....to escape this irrelevant crush.
And i wanna try to re-ignight the flame lost between me and my boyfriend...
Once again, please dont judge. This is not one of my finest moments