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Samantha R
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ok its long...I am a younger woman, and Im a bisexual, but am more interested in women. Ok so this woman that I like is about 33 years old, and I don't know how to tell if she is a lesbian. She is kinda butch, i guess, but the thing is like one day we were talking in a crowd n she said that she never wears skirts or any kind dress, and that she never will. For examples, i told my best friend to watch what this woman did every time i walked past her, and my friend said that pretty much everytime that I past her she would always look at me. So this one happens alot...im usually talking to someone n i see her walking around the area i am in, and i look at her n make eye contact. and this happens like 6 or 7 times while im still talking to that person, n same for her i see her talking to someone and it seems very important but i look at her anyways and she looks at me while this person is still talking to her...and its like whenever my eyes lock with hers, it feels like we are the only two people standing in the room, and in other instances i always catch her looking at me.. like glances or straight stares..i don't know how to tell her that u like her, or if i should its kinda in a workplace n wouldn't be allowed, assuming...but like for another example i was helping her set up stuff for an event that we were having n we usually have like a concession at these events n there was a candy bucket, and i asked her if that had candy in it n of course she said yes n was like do you want some, n i would normally have to pay for it, its like sometimes she gives me a little lee way, and during the day we work out, and i usually go the same time she does, and when i do the things in the machines i sometimes catch her looking at my legs or some part of my body, but i think she gives me signs but its just too subtle i can't really tell if she likes me or is a lesbian, and i mean shes 33 and is not married and doesn't seem like she has a bf or gf, she has a really big stride doesn't wear any make up, and likes to work out alot, she loves sports, and doesn't wear hardly any jewrely, and theres this other guy at this place n she stands just like him...idk what to do! ok so she coaches a sport n i was one of the people in the sport, and sometimes when she was explaining something on the field n i would be sorta near her n she would tell everybody to go to there places n she would like put her hand on my shoulder n sorta give a REALLY light squeeze, n direct me towards where i was supposed to go. n then sometimes she would do that, right before a game one time i was on the ground tying my shoe n she gave me this look like sorta a half smile but a smile like a seductive kind of look i can't really quite remember it though but i def felt something, and the other thing idk how to tell if she feels what i feel or something like it, and other people have said that they def get the vide that she is a lesbian, but i just don't have enough guts to ask her n it would also be inappropiate for the type of environment that we are in!!! help please