pretty sure they hate me? I was best friends with a girl from school for about a year and a half. I found out that she was constantly bitching about me and other people in our group behind our backs and I knew it was true because whenever it was just me and her hanging out she would always b*tch about other people in our group.
My group was really on/off with each other and some of the girls would just stop talking to each other for no reason at all. It went on for so long until I decided I shouldn't be friends with these people anymore because they aren't true friends, and I went and hung out with another group who I became best friends and to this day I am still best friends with my new group.
I was away from school one day and a friend from my old group sent me a text message saying that this girl had been bitching about me again. I sent a huge message to her over the internet having a go at her about it, and if I was at school I would have said it to her face and not over the internet. We didn't speak again after that. After I had a go at her she deleted me off Facebook (I wouldn't blame her)
Anyway it's been almost 2 years since then and we've just finished school. Lately I've been thinking about all the fun we had together and I miss her. Us two were more closer friends to each other than anyone in the group.
Just before school finished (about 4 months ago) she was talking to one of my friends at school from my new group and my friend said she was going to hang with me soon, and the girl said "If you bring her over her I'll punch her in the face" (Referring to me) But she wouldn't, she's all talk and has never hit anyone when she says she would.
She never said/did anything to me at school or anything after I sent the message, didn't give me dirty looks or send mean texts or messages over the internet.
I'm thinking of re-adding her on Facebook. And slowly start talking to her again and see where it goes. I was thinking I could start off "Liking" her wall posts then later on start commenting them with just stuff relevant to what she posts, not mentioning becoming friends again yet. Just being nice. And if we start talking again I'd apologize for the message I sent nearly 2 years ago.
I really want to start talking to her and become friends again, and if anyone has any advice please let me know
I don't even see her around anymore because we've both finished school, so Facebook's pretty much the only option lol
My group was really on/off with each other and some of the girls would just stop talking to each other for no reason at all. It went on for so long until I decided I shouldn't be friends with these people anymore because they aren't true friends, and I went and hung out with another group who I became best friends and to this day I am still best friends with my new group.
I was away from school one day and a friend from my old group sent me a text message saying that this girl had been bitching about me again. I sent a huge message to her over the internet having a go at her about it, and if I was at school I would have said it to her face and not over the internet. We didn't speak again after that. After I had a go at her she deleted me off Facebook (I wouldn't blame her)
Anyway it's been almost 2 years since then and we've just finished school. Lately I've been thinking about all the fun we had together and I miss her. Us two were more closer friends to each other than anyone in the group.
Just before school finished (about 4 months ago) she was talking to one of my friends at school from my new group and my friend said she was going to hang with me soon, and the girl said "If you bring her over her I'll punch her in the face" (Referring to me) But she wouldn't, she's all talk and has never hit anyone when she says she would.
She never said/did anything to me at school or anything after I sent the message, didn't give me dirty looks or send mean texts or messages over the internet.
I'm thinking of re-adding her on Facebook. And slowly start talking to her again and see where it goes. I was thinking I could start off "Liking" her wall posts then later on start commenting them with just stuff relevant to what she posts, not mentioning becoming friends again yet. Just being nice. And if we start talking again I'd apologize for the message I sent nearly 2 years ago.
I really want to start talking to her and become friends again, and if anyone has any advice please let me know
I don't even see her around anymore because we've both finished school, so Facebook's pretty much the only option lol