he complains and says that i don't like sharing things with him or communicating with him. he says he feels like i don't even want to talk to him.
i feel like it's impossible to have a conversation with him. whenever he has a problem i listen with empathy. whenever i share a story or problem, he just picks out the parts where i'm wrong and need to fix things.
i tell him i understand what he's saying or sometimes i agree, but sometimes i just want him to listen without judging. he just says i'm too sensitive over things so i prefer to keep things to myself.
then the whole circle starts over and he wonders why i don't share anything with him. he thinks i'm being to sensitive.. etc etc.. lather, rinse, repeat.
he likes to 'fix things' and he doesn't realize that the whole point of communicating is sharing ideas, not just 'fxiing' the other person.
otherwise he is a wonderful person
i feel like it's impossible to have a conversation with him. whenever he has a problem i listen with empathy. whenever i share a story or problem, he just picks out the parts where i'm wrong and need to fix things.
i tell him i understand what he's saying or sometimes i agree, but sometimes i just want him to listen without judging. he just says i'm too sensitive over things so i prefer to keep things to myself.
then the whole circle starts over and he wonders why i don't share anything with him. he thinks i'm being to sensitive.. etc etc.. lather, rinse, repeat.
he likes to 'fix things' and he doesn't realize that the whole point of communicating is sharing ideas, not just 'fxiing' the other person.
otherwise he is a wonderful person