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merrickrose
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My boyfriend and I were dating long distance (I lived in CA and him in WA) for 10 months. It's been 2 yrs since his divorce and he was left w/ full custody of his 9 yr old daughter. The mother is pops up once in a while. Things got serious between my bf and I and we decided, though the decision was hard to make, given the fact that I have a 12 yr old son who I shared 50/50 custody with his father. My son decided to stay w/ his dad, 'cause of the new school and friend's he had made. So we worked out a plan for me to have our son for the summer and holidays. Anyway, I moved in with my bf after 10 months of long distance dating. My bf owns his own house and the property and is basically settled in.
In the beginning things were alright. I stood home looking for work and he worked his normal f/t schedule. Things started popping up, that had to do w/ his ex wife (he was with her for 10 yrs).. such as pics and some of her things. It did bother me.. and I mentioned it and he took care of it.
I found a job and have been working for 2 mos. to help out our household. Lately, I've been picking at him. I don't know why, but we fight over little things and it turns big. I know it's my fault. I'm new to WA .. I don't have friends or family here and he is definately settled in... I feel lonely and ignored when he's off talking to his friends or doing his hobbies... and sometimes I feel like I'm left to babysit his daughter.. who adores me.. yet tests me constantly....I have brought up his past when angry.. got upset when unintentionally says hurtful things.. I don't know what to do.. I love him massively and he feels the same... I wanna stop being insecure and just get on happily w/ our lives..
In the beginning things were alright. I stood home looking for work and he worked his normal f/t schedule. Things started popping up, that had to do w/ his ex wife (he was with her for 10 yrs).. such as pics and some of her things. It did bother me.. and I mentioned it and he took care of it.
I found a job and have been working for 2 mos. to help out our household. Lately, I've been picking at him. I don't know why, but we fight over little things and it turns big. I know it's my fault. I'm new to WA .. I don't have friends or family here and he is definately settled in... I feel lonely and ignored when he's off talking to his friends or doing his hobbies... and sometimes I feel like I'm left to babysit his daughter.. who adores me.. yet tests me constantly....I have brought up his past when angry.. got upset when unintentionally says hurtful things.. I don't know what to do.. I love him massively and he feels the same... I wanna stop being insecure and just get on happily w/ our lives..