how do i/should i tell my mom i'm going to have sex...?

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hiii. i'm 13 & me andd my boyfriend are probably going to have sex this spring. see last year he moved to africa because his mom is like some research person..? but anyway hes coming to visit this spring and we're probably going to have sex (if you havent guessed it's going to be my first time) but i REALLY like him and i'm definitely ready for it. but the thing is i think that maybe i should tell my mom or dad because

1 my brother is really nosy and i feel like hes going to walk in on us like a million times so i kinda want to be like home alone so we can be private you know but i just don't know how to ask my mom that becuase i think shes going to FLIP

and 2 i haven't gotten that shot thing yet that like prevents vagina cancerr and i heard that you can still get that even if you use a condom, so i kinda think that i should but i have to ask my mom to take me to the doctor thenn....

so like how do i tell my parents all this stuff. should i just tell my mom? my mom is like weird....and i don't want things to be awkward with her.....hellpp!
 
yes i think you should have that talk with mom do it soon so you can get the pill and also lots of condom
 
If you're mom doesn't kill you then she's crazy.

You're 13 !
It's so repulsive how young kids are having sex, seriously.
You're hardly a pre-teen.

Don't have sex.
 
wow
yu have guts if you wanna tell yo mom
you wanna have sex at your house? well
ofcourse your bro will walk in on you!!
but do tell someone. its good to be open with them
 
you shouldn't be having sex at this age. you WILL regret it! even though you might be thinking yeah, yeah i love him, he loves me and we are ready blah blah blah, NO! STOP! trust me dont make the same mistake as i did I thought i was ready n all but i SOO WAS NOT and i only realized that after i had sex with a guy that IM NOT EVEN DATING NOW!! it effects you a lot in many ways and it effects the people around you too.
but you should talk to your mother about this, im sure shell be able to explain the consequences way better than i can to you (b/c idk you).

be smart, dont do it.
 
Ok people she's not asking you to tell her shes too young.

I think you should talk to an aunt or sister first, then ask them to help you tell your mom. sometimes a little moral support helps in these situations.

Good Luck!
 
just tell your mom you just want to be ready in case it ever happens. say its not happening now just in case you want to be prepared.
 
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