My husband is of course all into this March madness as his team made it to the elite 8. We have been married for several years (more then 10) and he tells me he loves me all the time and how pretty I am to him however I want to FEEL all that. I miss the romance and courtship, the occasional flowers for no reason, a card for nothing, a gift of lingerie or any small gift. I know life gets busy with kids and life. I mention romance and his normal excuse is "I just don't know what romance is" (I've TRIED to explain this many times). My feelings are hurt that he has so much time to keep up with teams and coaches and brackets online but not take the time to figure out what romance is. How in the world could I possibly relate romance to sports for him to understand? Men DO speak another language.