hi guys!
i will be getting married soon to my fiance, we love each other very much, but ours is an arranged marriage.
last week my fiance had gone out on a tour with her relatives, we spoke regularly, on night when i called my fiance, her uncle answered the phone and said she's gone out to the doc.
later that night, i called my fiance and told her that her uncle had answered the phone.
Next morning, she told me that her uncle informed her mother that sonali's husband had called last night, on hearing that, her mom was tensed (this is what my fiance told me) and pondered who had called? but she was relieved when she learnt that it was indeed me who had called. (the reason for her worry was, my fiance's uncle doesnt know me or know about me, just know's that the girl is engaged)
when my fiance returned from the tour, i happened to incidentally check her cell phone, to my surprise there were quite a few messages from various guys (they very well might be her relatives)
i did not get the opportunity to read all the messages, but the ones i read, dint make me happy either, for they contained words like : good night dear, sweet dreams. muaah, take care , etc
now on coming sunday we are going out on a long drive, i wanna check all her messages and stuff and confirm if she is in any relationship or not. but i dont want her to feel bad about it too.
i have many ex' gf's but i love my fiance over and above my life
i'm confused as to what to do now? i dont want her to think that i doubt her, neither do i want her to know that i feel insecure
please advice
PS: we;ve not indulged in sex yet, a few kisses and sorts of fun
@ adriana - Thanks dear
there's no way i cannot marry her, i will, irrespective of everything else, just that i really want to keep things neat and clean from the very beginning.
i get sad and sometimes upset when i learn such things unknowingly, and i want to clear it off as early as possible as i cant work,eat or sleep properly
i will be getting married soon to my fiance, we love each other very much, but ours is an arranged marriage.
last week my fiance had gone out on a tour with her relatives, we spoke regularly, on night when i called my fiance, her uncle answered the phone and said she's gone out to the doc.
later that night, i called my fiance and told her that her uncle had answered the phone.
Next morning, she told me that her uncle informed her mother that sonali's husband had called last night, on hearing that, her mom was tensed (this is what my fiance told me) and pondered who had called? but she was relieved when she learnt that it was indeed me who had called. (the reason for her worry was, my fiance's uncle doesnt know me or know about me, just know's that the girl is engaged)
when my fiance returned from the tour, i happened to incidentally check her cell phone, to my surprise there were quite a few messages from various guys (they very well might be her relatives)
i did not get the opportunity to read all the messages, but the ones i read, dint make me happy either, for they contained words like : good night dear, sweet dreams. muaah, take care , etc
now on coming sunday we are going out on a long drive, i wanna check all her messages and stuff and confirm if she is in any relationship or not. but i dont want her to feel bad about it too.
i have many ex' gf's but i love my fiance over and above my life
i'm confused as to what to do now? i dont want her to think that i doubt her, neither do i want her to know that i feel insecure
please advice
PS: we;ve not indulged in sex yet, a few kisses and sorts of fun
@ adriana - Thanks dear
there's no way i cannot marry her, i will, irrespective of everything else, just that i really want to keep things neat and clean from the very beginning.
i get sad and sometimes upset when i learn such things unknowingly, and i want to clear it off as early as possible as i cant work,eat or sleep properly