How dos!
I'll try and keep this as brief as possible: Basically, I've met a girl online recently. There's over 10 years or so in age diff, but don't worry, she's 18.
She's generally really sweet and easygoing, not to mention enjoys chatting to me online pretty much on a daily basis. We don't really argue or get into any disagreements/petty squables, but I think sometimes, she holds back a little in her emotions. She is an emotional person and carries some baggage (depression related), though, I can't go into great detail, but it needed professional help.
She really trusts me with stuff, heavy stuff and she's told me she's also had boy/men trouble in the past - she's also been hit on, both out in the real world as well as on the internet.
My problem is (and she has admitted this), she gets emotional and sensitized really easily over the tiniest of details that appear to bother her. Though she doesn't rage about it or anything, I can detect it straight off.
Even flirting is out of the question sometimes. I know we only really friends, but we both admitted there's chemistry between us. We agreed to take our friendship to the next level by chatting/texting on the phone.
But again, she is sometimes, quite a high maintainance person and you do have to watch your p.s and q's.
She did point out that she needs to be treated gently and that she is shy, with not a great big friend circle, that has pets and likes to spend a lot of time indoors.
She's also pointed out that she's not really bothered if she doesn't have a bf. because, in the past, people mention to her that they like her, yet, they thereafter, try it on with her and that puts her off other guys.
She's told me I'm the best male she's ever come across, but I feel as though I have to try and please and entertain her each time we are online - our conversations are usually 2/3 hours.
It just seems that I'm the one doing all the running around and showing affection - it's looking at the mo 70/30.
I would just prefer sometimes, a little more of an adult conversation.
Thoughts and advice on this please? Many thanks.
I'll try and keep this as brief as possible: Basically, I've met a girl online recently. There's over 10 years or so in age diff, but don't worry, she's 18.
She's generally really sweet and easygoing, not to mention enjoys chatting to me online pretty much on a daily basis. We don't really argue or get into any disagreements/petty squables, but I think sometimes, she holds back a little in her emotions. She is an emotional person and carries some baggage (depression related), though, I can't go into great detail, but it needed professional help.
She really trusts me with stuff, heavy stuff and she's told me she's also had boy/men trouble in the past - she's also been hit on, both out in the real world as well as on the internet.
My problem is (and she has admitted this), she gets emotional and sensitized really easily over the tiniest of details that appear to bother her. Though she doesn't rage about it or anything, I can detect it straight off.
Even flirting is out of the question sometimes. I know we only really friends, but we both admitted there's chemistry between us. We agreed to take our friendship to the next level by chatting/texting on the phone.
But again, she is sometimes, quite a high maintainance person and you do have to watch your p.s and q's.
She did point out that she needs to be treated gently and that she is shy, with not a great big friend circle, that has pets and likes to spend a lot of time indoors.
She's also pointed out that she's not really bothered if she doesn't have a bf. because, in the past, people mention to her that they like her, yet, they thereafter, try it on with her and that puts her off other guys.
She's told me I'm the best male she's ever come across, but I feel as though I have to try and please and entertain her each time we are online - our conversations are usually 2/3 hours.
It just seems that I'm the one doing all the running around and showing affection - it's looking at the mo 70/30.
I would just prefer sometimes, a little more of an adult conversation.
Thoughts and advice on this please? Many thanks.