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Sheila A
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My story is complicated!! I have been married for 12 years, dated for 15. Second marriage, Your mine and ours. He had 3 children, I had 2, and we had 1 together who is 12. All the other children have left. They all lived with us. I was the one who raised them while my husband was out doing whatever he wanted and at the time I didn't mind I was occupied and had a newborn who all the kids loved. My husband treated me well probably for the first 7 years. Then things changed. Although I never really said much about him taking off on his motorcycle and doing what he wanted until he decided to go open his own checking acct.. Then it started bothering me. He would go out and I'd call and not answer his phone sometimes not come at all. He would take my things and hide them from me, he went as far as to go get an order of protect on me for trying to stop him on his bike and talk to him. Id leave he change the locks on the house. We never really had any communication between us. He was also abusing prescrp. drugs which I believe altered his personality. I went thru breast cancer, survivor of 7 years. He recently had a motorcycle accident and lost his left leg. I had left him 2 weeks prior to that, but returned after his accident. It had been 6 mo. after his accident and we are now separated. I truly enjoy my time alone its like being able to breath again. But he is trying so hard to convince me that hes changed and I am having a hard time wanting him back. Also there hasn't been any intimacy in the past 2 years and I am repulsed at the fact. There has been so much more happen then what I have said I wa never a good parent as far as he was concerned, all our problems were ALWAYS swept under the rug. He would tell me he couldn't stand me, lets just divide our assets on and on!! Now he is constantly texting me and telling me that he a changed man