how do i know if my friend is really my friend? i have a few flaws i'd like to

breeseb824

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discuss ...? ok so i have this friend who i've known since 6th grade and we never really hung out until last summer but we've only hung out 4 times. but we are totally different and i like him because he's very nice and i don't know many of my guy friends that are as nice as him. but there has been some flaws like he doesn't answer my calls, texts or ims. one day i called him twice and when he picks up he snaps at me and a week later i see him i bring it up to him and he apologized. later on he keeps not responding to me and i told him i got offended by that and he told me i was one of his good friends and he hopes things stay that way and he also told me his other friends get mad when he doesn't respond to them but i never told him it really makes me feel i'm the only one. so i need some help ... he doesn't seem to show interest in me anymore, he hardly picks up any of my calls, he never tells me anything anymore unless i ask him or tell him something. it's like i don't even know him anymore ... he's my friend he has to tell me whats going on in his life and he's supposed to know me well and he's supposed to tell me everything right? so im struggling ... =(
 
Find a new friend, hes an @$$hole who doesn't want to be bothered. You can find a nicer guy friend who will actually be there for you and pick you your phone calls
 
I have a friend who did extacly same thing to me and i to teach her a lesson stop answering her calls and ingoring her and that worked and now its likewise she asks me why i dont pick up her call and why i ignore her. tit for tat . some people deserve that.
Also i would suggest you find friend who are genuine not trying to hide from people and not "weird". Some friends who are intersted in friendship with you as well not only you chasing them.
 
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