Well of course you have to fix your self and wear really sexy and thennn you have to be confident and you sit him on the count and you get on top of him and you play with the back of his neck and you start sucking and kissing on his neck, No slob though eww so be careful and then you lick and suck on his ear not the inside the little part where the earring goes and then you put his hands on your ass if its not already there and then naturally the fire should be started!