My lady and I have been dating for almost a year, and are now living together. We love each other very much, and have a deep, healthy relationship.
Except when it comes to sex.
She has almost no desire. On rare occasion, she definitely will. But those times are very few and far between.
We might take a relaxing shower together, I might cook her a perfect Italian dinner from scratch, or give her a back massage with warm massage oil, but nothing seems to get her in the mood.
When we do actually get frisky, it's always me who initiates, and me who does all the work while she just lays there. I'll go down on her for half an hour at a time, but she hardly ever returns the favor.
I get home every night after working 11-hr days, tired, and look forward to some frisky fun with my girl, but all she wants to do is watch TV, or just lay around. I get very frustrated, and don't even feel like I can tell her what's upsetting me.
I know I am more than capable of pleasing a woman. I know she loves me very much. But why is she like this, and what can I do about it? How should I talk to her without pushing her or making her feel like she's not good enough?
Except when it comes to sex.
She has almost no desire. On rare occasion, she definitely will. But those times are very few and far between.
We might take a relaxing shower together, I might cook her a perfect Italian dinner from scratch, or give her a back massage with warm massage oil, but nothing seems to get her in the mood.
When we do actually get frisky, it's always me who initiates, and me who does all the work while she just lays there. I'll go down on her for half an hour at a time, but she hardly ever returns the favor.
I get home every night after working 11-hr days, tired, and look forward to some frisky fun with my girl, but all she wants to do is watch TV, or just lay around. I get very frustrated, and don't even feel like I can tell her what's upsetting me.
I know I am more than capable of pleasing a woman. I know she loves me very much. But why is she like this, and what can I do about it? How should I talk to her without pushing her or making her feel like she's not good enough?