How do I handle a situation where feelings may be developing with a students' father?

Christina V

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I am an unusual teacher, and one of my students has unusual parents, who have gone to great lengths to search me out. I like and relate very strongly to both of them. What concerns me is that I am discovering that I have an amazing amount in common with the child's father. I feel that a strong mutual attraction that is based on everything important and real is developing. WHile I am not interested in an affair (yes, I am single, but I would refuse to be involved in any deception with the mother, and he is not the deceptive kind), still, I question the meaning is of this feeling that something is building? How do I handle these feelings, this position? As I try to understand this, I think it is not a case of marital disharmony, but sometimes love blossoms in places we do not expect it as we grow and change, and this may be what is happening here. One thing I'd like to say before closing is, please, no unhelpful something insulting, I am just and honest person in a strange situation trying to figure it out. It may seem like wishful thinking, but I am usually correct in my assessment of what may be going on or passing through a persons' head.
 
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