Same man for 7 yrs.. no longer together... wondering how the hell I can ease my discomforts with being around or even the thought of being with another man physically?? I know 7 yrs with only one man that I was not married too is pretty sad, seeing that I'm relatively still young and he's cheated on me multilpe times. But I worry about my kids being around a new man also... what do I got to do to get over the uneasiness?