How do I get this guy to quit the childish game he's playing and admit his feelings?

[a girl]

I share a house with a few friends & have been getting together with one of the guys for 2 mths now. He told me he's not looking for a serious relationship. So I made sure it was kisses only as I didnt want to hurt. He said "I want to be with you without feelings". Then he opened up a little saying he's afraid..broken after last girlfriend which ended a year ago (she wanted a child, only has a yr to do it & he felt too young). They're not in touch anymore. I Iwent travelling alone for a week & when I came back, he's been distant. Then last weekend we went with friends to a club, he seemed a little distant with me, avoiding me. He ssid it's because he's only loved one girl & he cant again. I has tears in my eyes & am ashamed to say i took the comfort of his arms. We had sex he looked at me, told me how good it is & he said that he's with me because I think & there isn't another girl he prefers. I'm in my 40s (look 30). He's 24 & he's told me he thinks I'm so great, he loves the life I have & I'm intelligent & pretty unlike the other ones he meets. (by the way his friends & uncle are v nice guys & they respect me.