How do I get sex if he keeps pushing me away?

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My man is very selfish and only cares about him getting off and then as much as I stand there longing for him just to touch me he accuses me of cheating on him when I would never do a think like that but i'll be honest after the past couple nights with how horny i've been I thought about it because he wont give it to me what should I do?

I am looking for advice on what to do? How can I get him to want to have sex with me but actually wanting me not wanting to just "get off" and also how do I lose this urge to have sex because apparently I just want it all the time and he may think he is given me enough but he's not. This is a real question and I am really sexually frustrated and I dont like to masterbate because I would rather have the real thing so what should I do??
 
Have you tried talking to him? Have you let him know of your needs? If not, do so, then he'll be on notice! If things do not change after that, explain to him that you have been considering moving on because he is not meeting your needs.
For some people, sex can be a powerful way to express AND feel the emotional attachment of ones partner, I assume you to be one of these people. And the less he provides for your sexual needs the more you find yourself desiring the attention you may be able to get from some one else. You may even be feeling your emotional bond with him slipping away.
You need to let him know these things in no uncertain terms, and if he continues with the way things are now, then at least he has been warned and it should not come as any surprise to him if you do decide to move on. Just make sure you talk to him before you do anything, even if he accuses you of cheating, at least in YOUR heart you will know you haven't and did everything you could to afford him every opportunity to rectify the situation.
And you may also wish to ask him to see a doctor, he may be experiencing a reduced libido, for one reason or another.
 
it sounds like he uses you for sex and you need to find another bf or when you both are just hanging around surprise him and strip down and maybe he will go for it. try new positions so he will enjoy it more
 
Now you know how it feels to be turned down for sex. You girls do it all the time to us guys and we can't stand it.
 
A red flag for me would be him accusing you of cheating. Perhaps he's feeling guilty about something, especially since he won't give you sex. Besides, if he doesn't want to be with you, then it's not worth the effort. Maybe you guys just aren't sexually compatible. Best of luck. You deserve someone who will want you to get off. There are truly unselfish men out there who take pleasure in pleasuring you:) Find one of those!
 
if he does not want sex then leave him alone about it, you cant force someone when they are not ready. if you love him then you will wait. plus, he must be getting really mad at you for pushing him like this.
 
As hard as it sounds, you should get your game face on ,and tell him the truth. Hes not satisfying you in bed , and you need it, its gonna hurt his ego a little but If that doesnt get a guy to try harder I dont know what will. You can also try dressing in something sexy one night when he walks in , I know i love that, but then again it sounds like he'll jus shoot his gun off quick. good luck ^_^
 
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