my ex and i were off and on together for 3 yrs and he was my first and my last so far...not my only....he knew my body perfectly basicaly put my body up on a pedistal, the sex was wonderful but there isnt anything there emotionally...its been a yr now and as comfortable as being single is im tired of it...a couple of gorgeous guys hav asked me...u kno the ones...beautiful and just dangerous enough. but i always say no because all i can think about is what if the sex is bad? how long should i wait befor sex? what if hes small or cant make me reach the big O? i miss dating and being somebodies baby....but what should i do?