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Laffin
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Im a 25 yr old man. I live with my woman, we got hitched 3 yrs ago and have been together since although its hard sometimes. I'm of an artistic nature, i'm endeavouring to write poetry and art and everyone knows its difficult breaking into that world and the endless rejection of my work is just crippling. The thing is my wife and i have 3 children, the joy of my life. They are 4, 3 and a year and half and my wife is now pregnant again. She works full time in a hospital, this is the agreement, i mind the kids and work on fostering my creativity. I dont feel its good for me to get a normal job, that is not conducive to bringing out an artists flair. I mind the kids full time too, with help from mom who comes here every day to give me a break for 2 hours so i can go the pub for a drink and some lunch and gather my thoughts. Money is tight so now my wife has to take up waitressing after work 4 nights per week. Shes complaining about this..even though i mind the kids all day and that is stressful. I set her up with the job in a friends restaurant, what is her problem? Also i had an indiscretion since we wed which resulted in me having another baby with another woman, that was 2 yrs ago and shes still not completly trusting me...