annabananna
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ok, so i was talking to this one guy who i really, really like, but he lives out of state. (i met him through my friend who knows him) and we had i guess a long distance relationship. at first my mom didnt beleive me when i told her who he was, even though i have seen him on video chat and everything, but so she called him and talked to his mom. so she was okay with it all then. so then we started going out, my mom didnt really care since it was "safe since he didnt live here". but we had to break up a couple of times and i got really hurt, so my mom started not to like him as much. . . but anyways, me and him were talking every now and then. but then i made this huge mistake (which is a different story) and totally lost most of my moms trust with him. her biggest problem is still with me talking to him when i havent met him yet. and shes still kind of worried about the "if he really is who he says he is" thing. even though that problem was solved a long time ago when she talked to his mom.....but i was talking to him the other day and he said that he was still going to come to my state for something in a couple of months. he made this plan before and i talked with my mom about it and she said it was fine and that i could see him when he comes. but that was before i made the mistake i did. but anyways, hes still coming to my state, and i really want to see this guy who iv been talking to and really liked. it could be my only chance. i know i screwed up with that mistake and i know i have to pay the consequences for it, but this is like, one of the biggest things i could wish for right now. i dont know what to do or what to say to my mom to make her see that everything will be alright, i know who he is. please, any help?
sorry about this being so long
sorry about this being so long