i've tried talking to him about it, he says sorry and does it again the next time we argue. he throws things in my face that were a very hard and hurtful time for me. if he had all these issues with me he shouldn't have married me, he also has a temper and curses and throws things and breaks them, he threw something at the door as i walked out last night and put a dent in the door (while i was carrying the car seat our son was in) he gets so angry and violent but has yet to put his hands on me, i don't want my son seeing this growing up. any advice, i think he needs counseling, but does that really help?