My husband is a game junkie, a computer lover, and a devoted buyer of games, computer parts (JUNK). I told him 1 year and 5 months ago that I wanted him to do one thing for me and that is to know my heart. He does not try anymore. He just works all night at that stupid job, comes home, open a mountain dew, and proceeds to play. Right now he is on some new MAPLE STORY crap. My heart is huge, and I wear it on my sleeves a lot. I am so lonely. He believes that if he takes me to the casino once a week than I will be happy. My husband is very hard headed, and STUBBORN. He is a Godly man though and wants to get back in the church. I just want to be held every once in a while, and taken out on a date of some sort. I have tried to talk to him about it but the answer just keeps staying blank. My husband is not a leader. Other than for his own crap. My husband needs a little more backbone. Any suggestions?